Admiration Medley
The day of Admiration
"Son, you can be the most compassionate of death doulas or the humblest of teobrew farmers, it is all the same: If you have worked, you deserve your story to be told"
Fondling of the Medley
"Come on, touchy the fishy."
The Social Rules
During the Fondling of the Medley, the normal social boundaries about personal space and physical contact are bent. The assistants are intended and encourage to touch the Medley to feel and admire its different textures, and so the celebrated individual may find themselves with a dozen of hands running through most of their body.While the crotch area and any uncovered portion of the body are left alone, the person must brace themselves to be touched anywhere else. This activity in this specific day is considered entirely non sexual nor intimate, and anyone found getting overly enthusiastic would have themselves being unceremoniously thrown out of the party and possibly vetoed from future ones.
The composition of a Medley
The pieces are a mix of structure materials, ornaments, and dozens upon dozens of pieces of fabric, of which many would have been part of clothing items in the past.
Symbolism
The Medleys are highly symbolic pieces not only as a way to mark the wearer as the central point of attention but also in the way the pieces are arranged and acquired. People make the overall shapes more delicate, sharp, wavy or voluminous to represent aspects of their personalities, but there is also an array of very specific ways to send messages across using the placement of the gifted pieces. Here are some of the examples.Detail | Meaning |
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Fabric placed in shoulder pads extending outwards. | A symbol for the one that gifted the piece being a positive influence in the wearer's life. "You make me bigger". |
Fabric being worn as a scarf/around the neck. | Represents a feeling of warmth and comfort while being around the person that gifted it. "You are my shelter" |
Fabric placed between the shoulder blades. | The person that gifted the piece is considered a weight being carried. "You are a burden" |
A gifted piece of cloth covering the genitals. | This may be interpreted as having a strong sexual desire for the person, or that the person is a prude that shuns their behaviours. "I have the hots for you"/"You are a killjoy" |
A very flamboyant piece worn over the crotch or butt. | This may be used as a way of telling that the wearer is an overtly sexual person, or that they expect to get laid after the celebration. "Ask me how this texture feels" |
A gifted piece worn in the chest close to the heart, or in the hands. | This is used to indicate that the person is loved, especially in a romantic context. "You are my heart / you always hold my hand" |
A piece being worn in the legs, especially if it is made of many gifted pieces of cloth sewn together. | A symbol of strong friendship, representing that these people give them strength and support. "You help me stand up and keep going" |
A Medley's Destiny
Medleys are intended to be used once. However, as they are very expensive to make most people turn them into heirlooms given to one's child that the new owner will make changes or additions to them to incorporate the gifted pieces.A medley usually benefits from this repurposing, as several instances of remixes and additions turn them into gigantic, impressive pieces of art that a poor family couldn't afford in one go. On the other hand, disposing of a medley after one use is used as a symbol of ostentatious fortune, and rich people may wear the medley a second time when their bodies are disposed of after they die, or they may turn the medley's destruction into an attraction of the Admiration's Day, by shearing it in front of everyone and gifting little pieces as mementos, or even burning it. Some people even had prepared the medleys for this specific purpose, by filling small hidden pouches of the outfit with kernels, gunpowder and other stuffing that would explode and be shot out as it burns. A medley's destiny is a source of a lot of social discourse: On one hand, they are intended to be used once, but on the other hand, only rich people can afford to do so, and as the culture of Stunveldt is one of close-knit communities and sharing of resources, this is frowned upon by many as wasteful. While some small groups delight themselves with excitingly explosive outfits, most are happier wearing an item with even centuries of little histories in its scraps of fabric.
Destiny's Guts
The Admiration Medley is one of the cards in the deck of Destiny's Guts, a traditional narrative game from Stunveldt.Drawing it during a round makes the narration go into character-focused exposition, whereas drawing it as a Destiny makes the theme be focused on the main character and the great things they accomplish.
Very nice article! First off the layout is good looking and a pleasure to read with all of the different boxes spread througout. I love the idea of the celebration that goes with this outfit, very original idea! Also nice how you added some info about how some people want there to be less fondeling and that it is being looked into. The last part is especially interesting where each fabric's location can mean different things about the person who gifted it. Really awesome work.
Thank you very much!! I try not to have a giant block of text because I suffer reading these myself n_nU Glad that you liked it!