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Love and Light: Marriage Rites

The world is dark and dreary enough. Tonight, let us be happy.
Marriage in Araea are times of joy and community. It is celebrated with abandon, with song, dance, and light. The celebrants paint themselves with elaborate patterns, light candles, and sing... And no one ever wants to miss out on the Shroom Shower.    

The Rites of Marriage

  Throughout Araea's history, people have always joined together in one way or another. As societies grew larger and more complex, so too did the rituals surrounding these unions. Marriages became events for the entire community to come together and revel.   Across Araea, lights, food, and community are essential parts of the festivities. Singing, dancing, eating, or other revelries; all are done as a group, with the marrying couple leading the event. On a day of marriage, no one sits alone but the most heinous outcast.  
Arranged Marriage   Not all marriages are for love. Many are just as much as joining families, tribes, or businesses together as about the couple. The practice is viewed with suspicion by most; after all, how can you trust one who'd sacrifice love for fortune or power?
Elaborate body-paintings called Shaavat mark the couple with blessings and well-wishes from friends and family.   Once simple in design, they have since become intricate works of art, and many of the other participants will now sport them during the ceremony as well.
  No matter how much the ritual has grown in the centuries, the foundation of the ceremony remains the same: love, joy, and community.    

The Day of Joy

  The marriage ceremony begins the day before and starts with the application of the Shaavat. There is always competition about who has the privilege of helping the couple paint the Shaavat, but in most cases, it is done by close friends and family. Being chosen is considered a great honor, and the stakes increase along with the status of the couple.  
The Shaavat is more than decorative, always including small well-wishes, blessings, or symbols of power and good luck.

Once the day of the ceremony arrives, the ritual begins with the lighting of candles and fires. There are placed on patterns on the grounds at first, then in every nock and cranny that can hold one. More is considered better, and merchants or nobles will sometimes sponsor marriages in their community with light as a gesture of generosity.
Barring such sponsors, everyone helps their community to supply the lights, then to them. Everything from candles to bonfire or Ahi Bug lanterns is used to light the celebration. Strong spirits brewed from mushroom and fungi are served at this stage, though not any more than to set a good mood.   Once lights are set, the music and dance begin, along with drinking and eating. Dancing with fire is widespread across Araea, with either length of wick or wick wrapped around staves, batons, or any other item that might make for a good show when twirled around. With only stone around them, accidents aren't usually a worry.  

  After that, the rest of the day and night is spent feasting, drinking, singing, and dancing. There is no set structure beyond having a good time, though it is popular to play simple games or light-hearted Spars, though it is equally common for people to just mingle, drink, and be merry.  
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No marriage is complete without the Chnagahn, a boiling stew with raw ingredients served to be dipped and cooked, any remaining liquid drunk as soup. Should any remain, it is traditionally given to the married couple to fill their larder.   Chnagahn made for marriages is usually served in cauldrons, and is another aspect sometimes sponsored by wealthy patrons. As a means of showing their wealth and earning goodwill, nothing bests a good Chnagahn.
  The final part of the wedding is the Shroom Shower. Once the party ends, the married couple has to make a mad dash to get into their home while the other celebrants pelt them with soft, sponge-like mushrooms, sometimes dipped in dyes. When the couple has reached safety, the celebration is over, sometimes signaled by ringing a bell or gong. The lights are kept alive as long as possible, and should any still be lit when the morning comes, they are often given to guests as gifts of good luck. The community helps to clean up after the marriage; then life moves on.

The Shaavat

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Shavaat are intricate, spiraling patterns painted onto the bodies of celebrants, made with a dye of mashed mushroom pulp. As with all aspects of the marriage celebration, it is not done in solitude but applied by one's friends and family. Exactly how elaborate they are is a personal preference, though everyone likes to show off at their marriage.   Shavaats can become extensive and reach across the arms, face, and even chest. It is considered poor form to sport a Shaavat more elaborate than the couple being married, so participants and guests tend to stay with something simple but visible.  

Clothes and Jewelry

Due to the Shaavat, the clothing used during the marriage ceremony tends to be open and often sleeveless to better show off the painted Shaavat, with some even choosing to go bare-chested.   Jewelry and other accessories are common ways of dressing up, with bracelets being particularly common and widespread. Many families only have such luxuries to wear for marriage ceremonies.  
Music is an integral part of the celebration. It signals the beginning and end of each part of the ceremony.   When sung, it is done in a chorus by all while the instrumental music tends to be lead by a skilled musician and then complemented by the probably drunk amateurs attending the marriage.  


It is uncommon but not unheard of for a marriage to consist of multiple partners. Such celebrations are no different other than that they tend to be much larger. The largest such union ever recorded was of a team of Kaia, four men strong, who united in a legendary marriage feast.   While unusual, polygamy like that is not viewed unfavorably - if anything, it can spark jealousy. Most feel lucky enough should they find love once, let alone repeat the good fortune.  
If those who marry or their friends happen to be Saen-Kaw athletes, the performance of a special wedding Saen-Khru is another favorite way to celebrate the marriage.   Read about Saen-Kaw
The Shaavat washes off by itself in about a week, and at that point, the couple's new union is seen to have entered the phase of being their normal life - better then it was before.
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Jul 23, 2018 11:54

Aww man! That is cute! I like you unique view on polygamy! One question: Would such a music be played in the underground or is it just a fitting mood, with sounds unable to be produced in your world?

Jul 23, 2018 12:00

^-^ Thank you!   The music is meant as an example of potential wedding/party music. String instruments, I think, will still be around. I had that running on a loop while writing the article!   I might update it if I found something more fitting, like the Ta'i for the Saen-Kaw article :)   Thanks again! :D

Creator of Araea, Megacorpolis, and many others.
Jul 25, 2018 08:29 by Michael

What an incredibly stark difference from the setting you're writing. Its adorable, cute, and all manner of things I shall not speak about (makes me feel weird, ha!). I enjoyed the read and had a sudden fascination to thwamp someone in the face with a spongy mushroom. =D

Jul 25, 2018 08:35

Keeping people on their toes! :D   Thanks for the comment and the like, it is always really appreciated. <3 And it's always fun to hear that people like this stuff!

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Jul 25, 2018 12:47 by AmazingChi

Yeah, you already know this comment is about to shower you in praise as much as they are with... mushrooms? It's all just fantastic, as always...!

Jul 25, 2018 12:54

<3   Thank you, it means a lot to me. I'm glad people are enjoying this stuff! :D

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Jul 25, 2018 13:31 by Andrew

Fantastically written, I love the images you've included. It adds a very vivid display of what the custom is. Considering I grew up somewhere that henna is quite common, it took me back to my childhood for a moment. Amazing work, Q!

Jul 25, 2018 21:17

Glad I could do that for you. <3   And thank you! :D

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Jul 25, 2018 20:05 by Dimitris Havlidis

Amazing artwork selection

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Jul 25, 2018 21:17

Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed the article! :D

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Nov 27, 2019 13:53 by Ava S. Jones

I know this has been talked about before, but I really liked the end note on polygamy. I’ve never seen someone talk about polygamy as something monogamous couples could be jealous of.

Feb 12, 2020 14:27

Anyone is lucky to find love once - but several times and shared? Very fortunate indeed :)

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Aug 22, 2020 02:52

What a great article, very nice cultural deep dice. Love the balancing artwork, especially the candle at the end.

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Aug 22, 2020 09:05

Thank you very much <3

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Aug 22, 2020 21:10 by Dr Emily Vair-Turnbull

The largest such union ever recorded was of a team of Kaia, four men strong, who united in a legendary marriage feast.
  *shiniest of shiny eyes*   This is a really good article. :D I really like all of the different traditions. I think the Shroom Shower might be my favourite though. :D <3

Emy x   Etrea | Vazdimet
Aug 23, 2020 08:49

Haha, thank you very much <3 And yes, no marriage is complete without getting pelted with wet mushrooms :D

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Aug 18, 2021 03:31 by Laura VanArendonk Baugh

I love how well this article visually resembles the topic, all darkness and light.

Aug 18, 2021 07:28

Thanks! :D

Creator of Araea, Megacorpolis, and many others.
Aug 20, 2021 02:11 by Lilliana Casper

Amazing article! I love the idea of how the whole community chips in to help the couple and their family. I don't know why I haven't attempted an article on marriage ceremonies in my world, but I'll be adding it to my list!

Lilliana Casper   I don't comment much, but I love reading your articles! Please check out my worlds, Jerde and Tread of Darkness.
Sep 24, 2021 15:09

Thank you! :D I'm glad you liked it and even more glad it could inspire something! What'll you write about it, ya think? :D

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Sep 3, 2022 16:40 by JRR Jara

Oh, this was a cute tradition! It's nice to know among all the hardships, humanity still finds a way to celebrate love and happiness.

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Sep 7, 2022 08:39

Of course! In the dark, there is light :)

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