Courtship begins when two people, regardless of sex or gender, begin exclusively spending time together after getting to know each other for a period of time. Many start engaging in a sexual relationship at this point though some hold off until they are at least talking of marriage or are engaged. Sex before marriage is not frowned upon nor is an exclusive relationship between three people like it might be in more conservative regions.
Though some couples or trios never get married at all, most duos or triads, begin speaking seriously about marriage after they have been together exclusively for at least a year. Though this discussion can happen earlier, it is generally believed that if they plan to have the wedding before they have been together for at least a year that the lovers are not following either their head or their hearts in the matter and most parents will actually object to the marriage altogether.
For couples, this period of the relationship is relatively easy with both parties either saying they want to get married, both parties saying they do not want to get married, or one party says they do while the other says they do not and they either continue on with the relationship or end it.
For triads, this is vastly more complicated as in some all three want to get married. Or only two will want to get married while the third is fine just being their lover without needing a ring or ceremony. Or two want to get married, but the third does not and they are not okay just remaining the married duos lover. Or one wants to get married while the other two do not, or all three do not want to get married at all. Regardless, if three people are in a relationship, its expected that there will be a great deal of communication before the engagement to make sure everyone is comfortable in the relationship and marriage if that is the path the three wish to go down.
Engagement involves each person in the relationship getting their lover or lovers parents blessing to marry their child. When all of the lovers have obtained this blessing, one or two will plan a private dinner between them during which they will formally ask for their lover's hand or lovers hands in marriage. When the ones being asked accepts, they are presented with a ring made from obsidian and pink sandstone. With the engagement formalized, the lovers will travel to the temple to reserve a date for their wedding, during one of the days there is a full moon. Once they have a wedding date, the lovers will then hand deliver invitations to their ceremony to everyone in their village including family members, friends, and people they do not know very well.
In the months, weeks, and days leading up to the wedding, the families of the betrothed, specifically the parents, will begin making their preparations for the feast that comes after the wedding, start with pinning down exactly how many people will be attending the ceremony. Their siblings and friends will help pick out and make their wedding attire often providing either sewing or tailoring skills or acquiring fabrics desired for said outfits.
The wedding ceremony begins in the couples', or triads', village just after sunset on one of the four days of the full moon with them emerging from their respective parent's houses. From there, the lovers will lead a procession along a path to the temple that is lit by candles and decorated by flowers, with some entering the tunnels at the base of the caldera and others walking up a path carved into the side of the caldera, either way, their paths are guided by candlelight. Directly behind them in the procession, are the lovers' family members and closest friends who carry candles and flowers and behind them are other people from that village who carry torches. This last group is typically made up of people who want to witness the ceremony but are not friends with any of the people getting married.
When the procession reaches the temple, the sun will have set, and the moon will be in the sky shining brightly the couple or trio being married will be led to the main hall where the headmaster/headmistress of the temple will be waiting at the base of Lyvona's statue bathed in moon and candlelight. The couple or trio will exchange vows promising to be faithful and love each other even when embraced by Lyvona in death and exchange rings made from motril and petrified wood to signify their relationship will be as sturdy and live as long as the metal and wood. A kiss as newly dubbed husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife, or whatever combination the trio is in, brings the ceremony to an end and marks the beginning of the feast.
The guests and newly married couple or trio will exit the temple to the central lawn where tables and chairs, as well as a space for musicians, have been provided for everyone under a large tent made out of draped white fabric. From the temple's kitchen, the temple initiates will bring roast beef, pork, chicken, or fish out to the guests with an assortment of vegetables as the musicians play their instruments and people dance. From the temple's cellars, the guests will be provided with a variety of ales, wins, and beers. For dessert, the initiates will bring a giant cake out that everyone will get a slice of. When not eating, drinking, or dancing, the guests will approach the married couple or trio with words of congratulations. The feast can go on for hours, with many ending as the sun rises.
In the days following the wedding, the newly married couple or trio may get portraits done of them wearing their wedding clothes.
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