Name Day

Dameskans, generally, are a reserved people. Their sacrifices and rituals are solemn, public affairs and there are not many causes for excitable celebration or excess. Given the countries continual war-like state and military-esque attitude, most of their holidays are muted, quiet affairs.
There are a few notable exceptions and one of those are Name Day Celebrations.
Family structure is important in Dameskan society. Everyone is expected to marry and, when able, have five children. Most will enter military service in some form or fashion. One is expected to be donated to the clergy.

Significance

For that, the Name Day of Dameskans growing up is a cause for celebration. Reinforcing the importance of the family, the fullfillment of the entire family unit to Damesk and Phrixus, and instilling a sense of worth in every Dameskan. While Dameskans are usually very patriotic, this base foundation in the family also creates close familial bonds.

Typical Name Day

A typical Name Day will usually involve a favorite meal prepared, usually served around noon if the family is particularly pious, with a background of music if there is anyone in the family musically inclined. There is no official cheer or high point of the day. Depending on the age of the celebrant, family might congratulate them or playfully ask what it's like to be older - usually reserved for the younger children. Older kids and adults are simply paid more attention and asked how their year has been, what they might've accomplished, and what they might do in the upcoming year.
In this vein, some Name Days can be a little stressful for younger adults that might feel pressured to have something to show or prove to their family when asked. Acceptable answers usually involve the military or the church, or becoming invested in the family business. Family not showing to a Name Day is a heavy insult and only if it is something serious, if someone has shamed the entire family. Disputes are often forgotten, for the day, or put on hold of Name Day celebrations.

Participants

Name Day Celebrations are usually for close friends and family. Aunts, Uncles, any tutors or trainers, and a friend or two of the person celebrating. They aren't meant to be a big, loud party, but a way for people to come together and congratulate and celebrate the growth of the celebrant.

For Adults

Name Day Celebrations tend to be more light hearted for kids growing up. Candy, presents, music, and games are prominent. They're a little more excitable than the typical Dameskan affair. Some adults, mostly nobles, still celebrate their Name Day though it is a much more private affair. Their parents, if they are still alive, siblings, and their children if they are older.