Black Proposal Tradition / Ritual in Seleim | World Anvil
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Black Proposal

The Black Proposal, Ankal Tasarapzik, is considered one of the most romantic ways to propose in Yzel culture. In Yzel, black is the color of stability and thus highly encouraged and desired in a marriage. Proposing in blackness is considered a sign that the partners want a stable marriage rather than one filled with constant romance, a stable love instead of a burning, though quickly dying flame.    While the implements of the proposal vary depending on the couple, most use a pearl they have fished from the sea, at least traditionally. Modern couples will often purchase pearls as very few outside of sailors have the skill necessary to retrieve one themselves. This is was once considered shameful, but not anymore as the population has grown and other methods of proving love in a proposal were found. Those who cannot fish for themselves and decide to purchase a pearl will often paint it themselves or have it engraved with the initials of the couple.    Necklaces, an earring, bracelets, or other settings can be used at the discretion of the couple. For poorer families, choker style necklaces are used so the pearl does not get in the way of work. Rich families tend to use rings or bracelets.    In terms of the proposal itself, a Black Proposal involves taking the partner to a secluded location, generally a cave or beach at night. The moon must not be out and the only light is allowed to come from a single lantern. Sometimes, the partner proposing will handmake the lantern, especially if the pearl was purchased.    Once they reach the darkest point of their location, the proposing partner will present the pearl in a small black leather bag, along with a black ribbon. They will then, in the presence of the gods of Tekel, particularly Coalate and Ahooai, ask their partner to marry them. If the answer is yes, the ribbon will be cut in half and tied around each partner's wrist. The pearl will be kept by the partner who was proposed to until the ceremony, at which time they will put it on before meeting their soon-to-be spouse at the temple.

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