Fourth Year Day

This child is lucky, they survived to four.

— Seilu, Suizan parent

One of the few celebrated birthdays of a Suizun is their fourth birthday. When they are four, they are considered resilient enough to be named. They are also finally considered to be part of the community and allowed to go outside of the home. After this birthday they start to be given simple chores and exercises to do. A year or two after this event, their education begins.

History

Since there is a high infant mortality rate world wide, many cultures wait until a child has survived for a few years before naming them and considering them part of the community. Suizun children tended to be kept at home as it was thought that it kept them safer. This view is still largely held and tradition helps cement the practice even further. The practice of giving clothing originates both from the fact that good clothing requires a decent amount of time and effort and also from the tradition of not considering a child part of the community until they reach the age of four.

Execution

Today we welcome another member into our community. May their life be long and fulfilling.

— Verlu, Suizun mayor

The child ventures outside of the house for the first time on their fourth year day. They are lead to the town square, a temple, or another significant place. The entire town is present for the ceremony as the mayor or a member of the clergy asks the caretaker(s) what the child's name is. The caretaker(s) answer with the name that they have chosen and the officiator asks that everyone welcomes the new member of their community.

After the crowd does so, a short speech about the importance of this day typically follows. The child is then given their first set of clothing, before this they have only worn diaper, showing that they are indeed a member of the community. A large feast follows and any religious rituals that are applicable. Towards the end of the day, the child is given their first simple chore to do. Their reputation within the community begins as everyone waits to see how they perform and draws conclusions based off of their performance.

Components and tools

A set of clothes, food, and any necessary religious objects. Typical religious objects include holy water, incense, weaponry, and amulets.