Sefhatr kal rismorr (sef-HAH-tr kahl RIZ-mor)
Translation: Sharing the bowl
Execution
The semi-nomadic societies of the South Entharian dunescape have a three-stage marriage ritual. The first being a physical feat of any kind, the second of which is typically 'Sharing the bowl", and the third is intimacy between the couple. Whoever is "proposing" picks up the bowl in both hands, and hands it directly to the person they intend to marry. Should the other person accept the bowl, they are accepting the proposal. The couple shall eat together from the same bowl, securing one-third of the marriage ritual. 'Sharing the bowl' can be between more than two individuals, each must accept or offer from every person to be considered married.
'Sharing the bowl' can occur either first or second in the marriage ritual. Often, the physical feat is conducted first, and encourages the other member of the couple to propose using the 'sharing the bowl' ritual. Either way, all three stages must be completed in order for the marriage to be considered official.
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The couple's family members, or chosen close friends, prepare a stew made with Tisenel, a herb that grows anywhere the smallest amount of water can be found. Tisenel is a symbol of hope. Spotting the tiny, green leaves of a Tisenel plant can mean a hunting party lives for another day. Marriage should have a portion of that hope, but should be supported and bolstered by hearty root vegetables, tubers, and protein-rich meats, representing commitment, trust, and hard work.
Bowls can either be wooden or clay, but rarely metal.
Participants
Sharing the bowl does not require any witnesses, merely for any parties to declare that they have shared. It is traditional, however, for the ceremony to be done in view of their family and friends.
Observance
There is no particular time of year when marriages can take place, and there is no limitation on the length of time between each stage of the ritual.
by Athena
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I really like that you did this particular tradition for this entry. Always thought this little bit was a neat sort of 'cultural clash' between the two. Something so seemingly innocuous turns into quite a big deal.
It made for a good book-scene in my head, but I wanted to make sure it worked in the context of their people too, so I'm glad the entry is appreciated :3